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Brenna Moore, Charles Kramer Wed

Charles and Brenna Kramer
Charles and Brenna Kramer

Brenna Moore, daughter of Diane and Paul (Pablo) Moore of Pacific Palisades, married Charles Kramer, son of Lynn Grant and Bruce Kramer, on June 16, 2007. The wedding took place in the ballroom of the Casino in Avalon on Catalina Island. Ragini Bhalla was maid of honor. The bridesmaids included friends Demetra Smith, Rocio Villalobos, Lisa Peju, and the bride’s cousin, Alexandra Thum. The best man was the bridegroom’s brother, Steven Kramer. The bridegroom’s brothers, Harrison and Jacob Kramer, and the bride’s brothers, Paul and Chris Moore, served as groomsmen. The bride graduated from Palisades High School in 1995, and Notre Dame University in 1999. She works as an interior designer in Santa Monica. The bridegroom graduated from the University of Miami and is a television editor and producer. The newlyweds honeymooned in Italy, where they visited Sicily, Venice, and the Dolomites. They make their home in Culver City.

Amy Kate Connolly Hopes to Be Disney’s Fairy Godmother

Palisades resident Amy Kate Connolly rallied for votes for Disney
Palisades resident Amy Kate Connolly rallied for votes for Disney
Photo by Rich Schmitt, Staff Photographer

As a self-described Disney fanatic, Palisadian Amy Kate Connolly has achieved her dream come true’almost. The Palisades resident is one of 10 finalists for the Chief Magic Official for Disney Parks. If she wins the position, Connolly will become a Disney emissary officiating at new attractions and events, and developing magical guest experiences at various Disney theme parks worldwide. From more than 1,300 video applications, contest sponsors Disney and CareerBuilder.com, winnowed down the field to five women and five men nationwide. Connolly is the only finalist from Southern California. The 10 top video resumes will be voted on by Americans, and the top three vote-getters will take part in a three-day event at a Walt Disney World Resort that will test their creativity, enthusiasm, knowledge of the parks, and magic aptitude. This contest is part of Disney’s ‘Year of a Million Dreams’ celebration, during which one million prizes will be given out randomly at the park,’ Connolly explains. ‘If I win, I would be in charge of magic at the park from May 1 to April 30 next year. I would be most excited about the Fourth of July celebration at Disneyland this year, when a naturalization ceremony will be part of a dream come true for so many people.’ Connolly became clued into the contest ironically when husband David Trotti, a first assistant director for television, was searching CareerBuilder.com during the recent writers strike. ‘He read about the job and thought ‘My wife is a Disney fanatic. Why not?” The couple prepared a 58-second video, wherein Amy is miraculously anointed with magical powers, which she uses to turn herself into a fairy godmother. Using simple computer programs and a lot of imagination, the couple transformed their Palisades home into a magic castle, and finished the piece with a shot taken at Disneyland. ‘My whole thing is that there is a little fairy godmother in all of us,’ Connolly says. ‘My reward would be to see others’ dreams come true. When you witness something at Disneyland at the same time, like the fireworks show, that event binds you as a community, if just for a moment. Magical things are happening unexpectedly all across the park that make people feel special, and it builds positive memories for your whole life. ‘The contest is really about promoting dreams, ‘ she continues, ‘whether it’s a dream vacation or a dream job.’ While Connolly does not know how many votes her video has garnered–it’s a blind tally’she stresses that she is working it. ‘I’ve already put my own daughter Chelsea to work campaigning for me, ‘ she says. ‘She’s only four, but the preschool set is a pretty important demographic to me. ‘We can vote up until March 22. One of last year’s winners got 83,000 votes. I have only 73 friends. Maybe they can vote at least 10 times.’ To view the video, visit www.dreamcmo.com/amy.

Former Honorary Mayor Steve Guttenberg Bound for “Stars”

So why were celebrities Priscilla Presley, Kristi Yamaguchi, Penn Jillette, Shannon Elizabeth, Marlee Matlin and Mario all spotted in Pacific Palisades over the weekend? Well, perhaps because actor Steve Guttenberg threw a shindig at his Palisades Highlands estate. Raison de fete? Guttenberg and said personalities will compete against each other as contestants on the new season of the contest show ‘Dancing With the Stars.’ The sixth season premieres Monday, March 17 at 8 p.m. on ABC. Our former honorary mayor, Guttenberg, will be paired with a ‘Dancing’ veteran, the lissome choreographer Anna Trebunskay. ‘She’s a world-class dancer,’ Guttenberg, 49, told the Palisadian-Post. ‘She appeared in past seasons dancing with Jerry Rice and Albert Reed and they were both really terrific.’ Before donning his dance shoes, Guttenberg sought advice from some previous ‘Dancing’ contestants he counts among his friends. ‘Tia Carrera and Vivica Fox,’ he said. ‘Vivica told me, ‘It’s a great show, have a lot of fun with it because it’s over before you know it.” But what about the judges ‘ Bruno Tonioli, Carrie Ann Inaba and Len Goodman? Won’t they spook ‘The Gute’? ‘They don’t intimidate me,’ Guttenberg said. ‘Intimidation is being in Iraq on the other side of the rifle. But this is a game show. It’s a lot of fun. It’s an uplifting, positive, life-affirming show, and the judges want you to do well.’ Surprisingly, the star of such ’80s blockbuster comedies as ‘Three Men and a Baby,’ ‘Short Circuit,’ the four ‘Police Academy’ flicks, and the classic ‘Diner’ said that he never had to pull a Travolta and bust moves on screen. ‘This is my first time dancing,’ Guttenberg confesses, though he has come dangerously close to shaking his groove thing on celluloid. Technically, one can not call it ‘dancing,’ the head-bobbing and fist-pumping he does in the 1980 Village People vehicle ‘Can’t Stop The Music’ (which Guttenberg either forgot about or would like to forget). In ‘Don’t Tell Her It’s Me,’ Jami Gertz attempts to give dance lessons to Guttenberg’s obese, cancer-survivor cartoonist, but fails miserably. (He engages her in a slow dance free of actual choreography–total cop out!). Also recall that the comic actor was nowhere to be found in that scene from ‘Cocoon: The Return,’ where the alien life force-empowered senior citizens breakdance. Some might argue that Guttenberg did some dancing in his first film, “The Chicken Chronicles.” “Chicken” or no “Chicken,” Guttenberg believes now is the time to strut his stuff on national TV. ‘They’ve been asking me for a few seasons and I never had the time,’ he said. ‘But this year’s my parents’ 50th anniversary and they love the show.’ ‘I’m thrilled about going on ‘Dancing’,’ said Guttenberg, who just wrapped ‘Major Movie Star’ with Jessica Simpson. ‘We’re in a very tough economy, we’re at war, we’ve got a very tough presidential race going on. It’s a great time for the country to have this show.’

PALISADES HIGH ROUNDUP

Lacrosse Teams Notch First Victories

Palisades High lacrosse captain Eric Rosen (left) fends off a Loyola defender during the Dolphins' 11-8 loss Saturday. Photo: Jared Rosen
Palisades High lacrosse captain Eric Rosen (left) fends off a Loyola defender during the Dolphins’ 11-8 loss Saturday. Photo: Jared Rosen

Two weeks into its season, the Palisades High boys’ varsity lacrosse team sits at 2-2 while the Dolphins’ girls squad improved to 2-1 with a pair of victories Saturday at the Rose Bowl. The boys rebounded from a 12-3 loss at Palos Verdes in their season debut to beat Brentwood, 10-7, in their first home game at the newly renovated Stadium by the Sea. That was followed by a dominating victory over Huntington Park. Last Thursday, the girls lost their home opener to Peninsula, 13-7, before rebounding to beat Culver City, 6-3, and Aliso Niguel, 4-2, at the Rose Bowl tournament in Pasadena. The boys’ junior varsity is 1-2 after losing to Loyola, 6-5, in overtime Saturday. Palisades beat Culver City, 6-4, to net its first win last Thursday. Baseball Mike Voelkel’s squad evened its record at 2-2-1 after a 6-6 tie with Roosevelt in the Royal tournament and victories over Taft and North Hollywood last week. Against Roosevelt, Jonathan Moscot had two hits, including a home run, and had seven strikeouts on the mound. David Skolnik went three for three with two runs and one RBI and Brett Whalen added two hits and two runs for the Dolphins. Palisades edged Taft, 13-12, on Friday, led by Julian Barzilli’s three hits (one a home run) and five RBIs and Alex Meadow’s three hits, two runs and four RBIs. The next day, the Dolphins routed North Hollywood, 11-3, behind six strong innings from Buck Traweek and another Barzilli home run. Softball Palisades went 1-1 last week, beating North Hollywood, 4-2, and losing at Washington, 5-2. The Dolphins trailed, 2-1, before rallying for three runs in the bottom of the fifth inning, then holding on against the Huskies. Swimming So far, the primary concern for Coach Maggie Nance has been finding a place to swim. Once the competition starts, Palisades has had little to worry about. After lapping Granada Hills in their first meet, the Dolphins’ girls team scored a 128-48 victory over San Pedro Monday at the Venice pool. The YMCA pool is still closed for repairs, forcing Palisades to practice at Santa Monica High. “We’ve only been able to practice one hour a day so our times are slower,” Nance said. “You can see from our times that we’re not as fast as we should be.” Sophomore Hayley Lemoine (individual medley, butterfly) and senior Kristen Fuji (backstroke, freestyle) lead the defending City champion girls varsity, which is favored to win again. The JV girls won, 81-54, and the JV boys prevailed 72-33. The varsity boys lost to San Pedro, 109-63, despite another strong effort by sophomore John Cullen, who won the 100 backstroke for the second straight meet. “It would be nice for the boys to go top three [in City],” said Nance, who has 60 swimmers, more than she’s ever had in the program. “They need to step it up and show more work ethic.” Boys Tennis The Dolphins improved to 6-1 overall with a 7-0 shutout of Los Angeles CES in a Western League match on March 3. Singles players Brett Allchorn, Kyung Choi and brothers Oliver and Trinity Thornton combined to lose three games in four matches. Boys Volleyball In the first of two Western league showdowns against reigning champion Venice, the Dolphins outlasted their beach rivals, 25-21, 23-25, 25-20, 20-25, 15-12 last Wednesday. Palisades is now in the driver’s seat in the race for first place.

Faulk Thrills at Olympics Day

By DEBBIE ALEXANDER Special to the Palisadian-Post The international Olympics are not until this summer in Beijing, but Canyon Charter Elementary School got a head start last week at its annual Olympics Day here in Pacific Palisades. The event arrived early this year, but children were pumped up and ready to run nevertheless. ‘The kids did extremely well and it was tough because the date got pushed up, but I trained them pretty hard,’ Coach Joey Medaglia said. Olympics Day is also a school fundraiser and some of the funds are already earmarked to purchase more sports books for the library. ‘It was great,’ shared parent Karen Parcell, who helped organize the event. ‘And we had a surprise guest later in the day future [National Football League] Hall of Famer Marshall Faulk from the St. Louis Rams and Indianapolis Colts. He was just terrific with the kids.’ Faulk set numerous school records at San Diego State and played in two Super Bowls with the Rams’a 23-16 victory over the Tennessee Titans in Super Bowl XXXIV in 2000 and a 20-17 loss to the New England Patriots in Super Bowl XXXVI two years later. ‘He tossed the ball around with them and they were thrilled to meet a real big name athlete,’ Medaglia said of Faulk. According to third-grader Hank Korsan, the running seemed harder because he graduated to the big track, but proved worthwhile. ‘It was so cool to meet Marshall Faulk, even though I am a Green Bay Packers fan because my dad played for them.’ The object is for the students to do their best running in 10 minute intervals around the grass field. The two track sizes are 90 feet x 40 feet for grades K-2 and 120 feet x 60 feet for grades 3-5. ‘Thirteen laps on the big track is a mile,’ Medaglia added. On average the upper classmen top out at about 17 laps while the younger grades average about 20. Prior to hitting the track there is a quick warm-up with lots of stretching. Mrs. Durand’s first grade class agreed that Olympics Day was a blast. ‘Did anybody run 25 laps?’ Medaglia asked. A name was mentioned, but most kids shook their heads no. Olympics Day kicked off with the opening ceremonies, where each class paraded a colorful handmade banner around the yard. Ms. Henderson had everyone recite the ‘Olympic Oath,’ which encourages good sportsmanship. Prior to the big day, track & field star Khadevis Robinson and his trainer Ann Merrem visited the school and inspired the children. “The high level of enthusiasm, sportsmanship and positive energy generated by our Olympics Day created a very special day for our students, staff and parents,’ observed Principal Carol Henderson. “It was great to see everyone working together and having so much fun.” Kindergarten teacher Mrs. Gorman was worried because, for the first time, her class was scheduled to run right at 8:30 a.m. ‘It actually was wonderful and perfect,’ she shared. ‘I would be glad to do it that way again.’ Once again, donating old sneakers was encouraged for Nike’s ‘Reuse a Shoe’ program that recycles the rubber into sports courts in under-privileged neighborhoods. ‘My kinder, Peter had the most fun and he was so proud,’ parent Chiara Sussman said. ‘It was very festive, well-organized and the weather was fantastic.’ Each child got a special Olympics Day t-shirt, water, a Popsicle and a metal. As a special lunchtime treat, ice cream from Cold Stone was donated for the entire student body. Instead of gold, silver and bronze medals, two bikes from Helen’s Cycles and a $100 Best Buy gift card will be randomly given away to three lucky students after spring break.

Rox! All-Stars Win Santa Ynez Classic

Cassie Jernigan (left) moves in to slide tackle a San Luis Obispo player during Pali Rox! 3-1 semifinal victory. Photo courtesy of Merrie Mac Seaman
Cassie Jernigan (left) moves in to slide tackle a San Luis Obispo player during Pali Rox! 3-1 semifinal victory. Photo courtesy of Merrie Mac Seaman

Pali Rox!, a local U12 girls AYSO All-Star team, emerged victorious at the Santa Ynez Classic last weekend. After an early afternoon forfeit on Saturday, Coach Phil Pecsok?s team took on the Santa Barbara ‘A’ squad and won 4-0 on a hat trick by Elizabeth Seaman and another goal by her sister, Emma Seaman. The offense was led by Taylor Pecsok, Cassie Jernigan, Laila Touran, Brooke Reece, Carmen Flood and Elizabeth Seaman. On Sunday, Pali Rox! played three games and won all three. First they beat Beverly Hills’ B team, 5-0, on goals by Brooke Reece, Hannah De Silva, Natalie Messing, Elizabeth Seaman and Carmen Flood. The defense, including Jules Barlow, Natalie Messing, Katie Jones, Emma Seaman and Gillian Ondaatje, was stellar throughout the tournament. In the semifinals, the Rox! beat San Luis Obispo’s A team, 3-1. The finals pitted Palisades against the host Santa Ynez ‘A’ team and Rox! won a hardfought game, 2-1, with goalies De Silva and Ondaatje making big saves.

New PTC Camps Start Monday

The Palisades Tennis Center begins its next camp session next Monday, March 17, and also debuts its new, more structured format. “We have a number of goals this year,” PTC Director Andy McDonnell said. “We want to produce more tennis players. This camp is really geared towards taking kids who have little to no experience on the court and getting them up to speed quickly. Over the years so many kids who have started in the camp have gone on to get college scholarships, win national titles and get into schools they wouldn’t have gotten into because of tennis. The PTC hasn’t focused on all the great things that have happened to the previous generations of kids, but now we have quantified those results and really have baked that into our mission. We want to build tennis players that can use tennis as a lifelong tool for exercise, social skills and fun.” Spring break camps run March 17-28 and will be broken down into two sessions to accommodate community members ages 4-18. The PTC will also be holding morning and evening LiveBall clinics for adults throughout the spring break sessions. Each week, campers will hit balls, play competitive games, build skills and get fit and make new friends. “Nearly every local school has kids signed up now for the spring camp,” Director Thomas Dawson said. “We have never been more prepared to make these kids learn a ton and have a ball.” To sign-up for a camp, call the PTC at (310) 573-1331.

VERT Fitness Sponsors Pali Blues

VERT Fitness, a training facility owned by Dr. Walter Theis of Pacific Palisades, has become an official sponsor of the Pali Blues Soccer Club. “VERT has the technology and equipment to make weight training more sport and athlete specific,” Pali Blues captain Kendall Fletcher said. “It combines strength with agility and quickness. It’s exactly what I’m looking for in a strengthening program.” Along with on-site physical therapy at the Santa Monica facility, VERT staff will also conduct private training sessions for the Blues twice a week. “VERT is the perfect partner as they are on the cutting edge of technology in their field,” Pali Blues Coach Charlie Naimo said. “The players that have already used the facility are as excited as I’ve ever seen athletes when it comes to strength and fitness training.” VERT is a fitness company focusing on the aspects of fast-twitch training, revolving around the science of isokinetics and its application to sports performance. “VERT of Santa Monica is excited to sponsor the Pali Blues,” VERT general manager Kelly Stamp stated. “We’re looking forward to working together with the Blues and seeing our training translated to on-field play.” A couple of famous athletes that have worked with VERT Fitness are NBA center Shaquille O’Neal and Holly McPeak, the all-time winningest women’s volleyball player in AVP history.

CALENDAR – MARCH 6 Through MARCH 14

THURSDAY, MARCH 6 Opening night of the three-day Pacific Palisades Film Festival, 7 p.m. at Pierson Playhouse on Haverford. Tonight’s feature is a documentary, ‘Fields of Fuel.’ For a complete schedule, visit www.FriendsOfFilm.com. Tickets can be reserved by calling the Theatre Palisades box office at (310) 454-1970, or purchased at the door if available. Susan Stiffelman, a licensed family, marriage and child counselor in Malibu, discusses ‘Principles of Passionate Parenting,’ 7 p.m. at Westside Waldorf School, 17310 Sunset. Public invited. Admission is free. Contact: (310) 454-7064. Pacific Palisades author and filmmaker Nicholas Clapp discusses his book, ‘Who Killed Chester Pray? A Death Valley Mystery,’ 7:30 p.m. at Village Books, 1049 Swarthmore. Clapp has received more than 70 major film awards, including Emmys and Academy Award nominations. SUNDAY, MARCH 9 Poetry reading by philosopher poet Steven Friedman, 3 to 5 p.m. at the Summit Club in the Palisades Highlands, 1501 Chastain Pkwy West. Light refreshments will be served. (See story, page 13.) MONDAY, MARCH 10 Moonday, a monthly Westside poetry reading, 7:30 p.m. at Village Books on Swarthmore. (See story, page 14.) TUESDAY, MARCH 11 The Pacific Palisades Woman’s Club holds its annual ‘Coming Up Roses’ fashion show and auction at the clubhouse, 901 Haverford. The reception is at 11 a.m., followed by the luncheon at noon. Fashions will be provided by Vivian’s Boutique on Monument. Tickets are $40. Contact: Jean Aroeste at (310) 230-2792. Storytime for children of all ages, 4 p.m. in the Palisades Branch Library community room, 861 Alma Real. WEDNESDAY, MARCH 12 Baby and toddler storytime, a lap-sit mix of songs, finger plays, stories, and flannelboards, for babies and toddlers under the age of 3 and their grown-ups, 10:15 a.m., Palisades Branch Library on Alma Real. The Palisades League of Women Voters group meets at noon in the Palisades Branch Library community room, 861 Alma Real. Public invited. (See story, page TK.) Monthly Palisades AARP chapter meeting, 2 p.m. in the Woman’s Club, 901 Haverford. Public invited. The guest speaker is Palisades author Jeanette Griver. A 12-Step writing meeting for all 12-Step programs or anyone with a habitual problem or illness meets every Wednesday, 7 to 8 p.m., at 16730 Bollinger Dr. Contact: (310) 454-5138 or e-mail info@12stepsforeverybody.org. Heather Summerhayes Cariou discusses and signs ‘Sixtyfive Roses: A Sister’s Memoir,’ 7:30 p.m. at Village Books on Swarthmore. Cariou’s book chronicles how her sister’s battle with cystic fibrosis led to the founding of the Canadian Cystic Fibrosis Foundation by Cariou’s family. THURSDAY, MARCH 13 Chamber of Commerce mixer, 5:30 to 7:30 p.m., hosted by Gerry Blanck’s Martial Arts Center in the 881 Alma Real building (Suite T-14). Event features live martial arts demonstrations and hosted hors d’oeuvres from Tivoli Caf’. Non-Chamber members: $25. Pacific Palisades Community Council meeting, 7 p.m. in the Palisades Branch Library community room, 861 Alma Real. Public invited. Betsy Braun discusses and signs ‘Just Tell Me What to Say: Sensible Tips and Scripts for Perplexed Parents,’ 7:30 p.m. at Village Books, 1049 Swarthmore. Braun covers everything from sibling rivalry to food wars, to questions about death, sex and divorce. (See story, page 12.) FRIDAY, MARCH 14 Editor Victoria Zackheim and contributors Barbara Abercrombie and Amy Liu discuss and sign ‘For Keeps: Women Tell the Truth about Their Bodies, Growing Older, and Acceptance,’ 7:30 p.m. at Village Books on Swarthmore. Professor Ismail Bardhi, a Muslim scholar, lectures about his work on interreligious dialogue, 8:30 p.m. at Kehillah Israel, 16019 Sunset Blvd. Public invited.

Talking Straight to Tots

Betsy Braun
Betsy Braun
Photo by Rich Schmitt, Staff Photographer

The New York Times heralds Betsy Brown Braun as ‘the parenting guru.’ The popular child development specialist seems to channel Dr. Spock with her sage, straightforward advice; an approach peppered by an Erma Bombeck-style wit. ‘My dream house has no kitchen. That’s not my area. But I’m really good with kids,’ Braun said during a recent interview at her Pacific Palisades home. Braun’s first book, ‘Just Tell Me What to Say,’ was recently published by Harper Collins and is already garnering good reviews. ‘Just Tell Me’ offers ‘sensible tips and scripts for perplexed parents.’ Braun will sign copies of her book at 7:30 p.m. on Thursday, March 13 at Village Books, 1049 Swarthmore. The book’s cover addresses many issues specific to the 2- to 6-year-old crowd–throwing tantrums, picky eating, whining, sibling rivalry, potty talk and swearing–all ripe for strategic parental responses. Braun’s book tackles these irritants along with weightier subjects such as illness, divorce and death. Learning about the birds and the bees gets apt attention, too, with a chapter titled ‘How Did That Baby Get in Your Tummy?’ Another section, ‘Is the Fire Going to Come to Our House?’, guides parents in answering tough questions about natural disasters, terrorism and war. ‘Doing what I’ve done for such a long time, you realize there’s nothing new on the planet,’ says Braun, who has more than 35 years of experience in elementary education and as a parenting educator. The founder of Parenting Pathways, Inc., Braun offers both private consulting and parent seminars. Her authority also stems from raising her own kids”triplets Jesse, Ben and Lucas, who are now 30”with her husband Ray Braun. ‘Parents kept asking me the same questions over and over,’ Braun says, pointing out that the difficulty of getting kids to listen is by far the most common parental lament. ‘I realized I could reach a much bigger audience by writing a book. Everyone should have this information. Everyone should know you start talking to kids about death when they’re two, not when they’re five.’ In the chapter devoted to learning about death (‘Why is My Goldfish Floating in the Toilet?’), Braun counsels parents to throw away the euphemisms–‘the doggie went to play in the country’ or that Grandmother ‘passed away’–in favor of ‘real’ words such as dead, death, die and dying. ‘Many of these topics aren’t loaded for kids, they’re loaded for the parents,’ she says. ‘The book is meant as a starting point. It is not meant to imply ‘This is what you have to say.’ I hope it will give readers confidence to craft their own response to their own individual child. ‘I’m also hoping it will be timeless, that it will sit on people’s shelves like a security blanket. Each chapter really stands alone.’ Though ‘Just Tell Me What to Say’ is officially geared to parents and grandparents of children ages 2 to 6, parents with kids of all ages will find it useful, according to Braun. She acknowledges how the Information Age presents new challenges to the job of parenting. ‘There are so many ways for kids to go off track,’ she says. ‘We could protect kids in ways we can’t now. It’s more important than ever to set limits.’ What hasn’t changed is how critical it is for parents to demonstrate the behavior and values they hope their kids will take with them into adulthood. ‘Healthy parents lead to healthy children’ is one of Braun’s favorite mantras, and she is quick to refer clients to therapeutic settings when indicated. While a parent who spends time nurturing his or her child is optimal, becoming overly involved (what Braun refers to as a ‘helicopter’ parent) is an all-too-common trait. Braun sees this trait unfold often, particularly among older parents, who apply the same determination and zeal to raising kids as they did to their careers. ‘In order for kids to grow up and be satisfied, competent human beings, they need to struggle and make mistakes,’ Braun says. ‘They need to figure out who they are, not who you want them to be.’ At public appearances, such as her forthcoming one at Village Books, Braun really enjoys fielding questions. ‘I like that I’m known as someone who tells it like it is,’ she says. ‘I think it’s always in the best interest of the family.’