
By MARIE-CLAUDE HAMEL, Palisadian-Post Contributor From afar, nothing seems unusual. It’s 9:30 on Saturday morning and the sports field at Calvary Christian school is swarming with young soccer players in blue and red jerseys. Coach Don Randolph, wearing a yellow T-shirt, runs with the players, giving them last-minute advice for the play. ”But as one gets closer to the field, something special differentiates this game from the average one: young soccer players, not donning any of the teams’ colors, run up and down the field, assisting the team members with their moves. Those young aides, ‘buddies,’ are the key to the success of the American Youth Soccer Organization’s VIP program for children with special needs. ”’Each player is assigned a buddy from the moment he or she walks on the field to the time of walking off the field,’ Randolph said. The buddies are mostly friends and family members of the VIP players, volunteers from the local AYSO teams or from the local Boy Scout troop. ‘If I have to give credit to anyone for the success of the program, it’s to the buddies. These are young soccer players who have never experienced anything like this before,’ he said. ”Although Randolph is an attorney with a full load of complex cases, he has already spent 10 years volunteering as a coach for AYSO. When he was asked to organize and coach the Pacific Palisades’ VIP soccer program, which stands for Very Important Players, he said that both he and his wife Suzanne knew this was something they had wanted to do, it was just a matter of when. It now seems as though the fall of 2004 was just the right time for Don and Suzanne. ”Since the Randolphs’ daughters, Christina, 16, and Maggie, 12, were already playing in AYSO teams, Don said they waited for their 10-year-old son Charlie to be ready to be involved in a sport before starting the Palisades’ branch of the VIP program. Now Charlie, who is autistic, is able to participate in a team sport for the first time in his life, while being coached by his father. ‘Charlie is staying a little longer every week. Perhaps he’ll stay for a whole game by the end of the season,’ Don said. ”Charlie is part of the 10-year-old and under co-ed group, which now has about 12 registered players, while the over-10 group has about six players. The younger group takes to the field from 8:30 to 10 a.m. Saturdays, while the older group plays between 10 and 11:30 a.m. on the same days. ”But the VIP program is still a work in progress. Having officially started only in late September, Don said he felt the program could grow rapidly. ‘We now have about 18 to 20 players registered and we’re very pleased, but I would be very happy if we could grow the program to about 50 players.’ In addition to Don, Chris Jones helps coach the team and also has a son, Dylan, who plays in the older group. Volunteer Nancy Weintraub also helps with coaching, and her son Ted is one of the buddies. ”According to Debbie Held, the commissioner for AYSO Region 69, which encompasses Brentwood, the Palisades and adjacent neighborhoods, the VIP program was greatly needed in the Palisades and she was pleased when Don accepted her offer to start the project. ‘It takes a lot of energy to get the ball rolling, and Don has been a great organizer and a great coach,’ she said. ‘There is a need for this program in this community and I think it’s great time that we have a VIP project in place. It’s now just a matter of getting the word out to the community and letting them know that this is available to their children.’ ”The VIP project has its arms open to many children who would otherwise be unable to participate in a team sport. ‘Anyone with any disability that doesn’t make a child too fragile to play is welcome,’ said Suzanne Randolph. Although the program is open to any child with physical or mental impairment, Suzanne said that the majority of the Palisades’ VIP members have autism. According to AYSO, these children can often feel isolated in schools and in special programs, but the integration of the non-disabled players to the VIP program allows for a healthier growth and exchange for the children with special needs. ”Mike Roux, a 16-year-old who, on the Saturday we visited, was sporting a blue jersey and scored the first goal for his team, has found in VIP the outlet he needed in order to satisfy his desire to play sports. His father Chris, who also fills in as a temporary coach, explained that since socialization is the main difficulty for autistic children, the idea of a team sport helps lift some of the barriers. ‘Kids like Mike think about themselves all the time, so the concept of a team broadens his world,’ Chris said. ‘He really does enjoy it. He played for three years in the Westchester VIP program, but this is closer to home.’ ”But some of the children are newer to the scene. One of Mike’s friends, 15-year-old David Coles, is one of them. Having gone for the first time to a VIP soccer game two weeks before, he sat on the sidelines until halftime, when he finally decided to join in and, according to Don, quickly became the star of the show. ‘He’s a natural,’ Don said. ”But David’s mother Laurie said she thinks that his agility may come from someplace else. ‘He plays computer games constantly. We think that’s why he’s so quick to learn,’ she said. Laurie said that David loves to write and has a great imagination. ‘I think he lives his life through the stories that he writes and I think that’s him trying to have friends: the ones who live in his stories. That’s why I think [VIP] is very important. It’s part of their socialization.’ ”David, who, like Mike, wore a blue jersey, scored at least two goals during Saturday’s game, making him once more very popular with his team and with the group of parents who sit on the sidelines and encourage all players. ”At the end of each game, the players give each other cheers and run through a tunnel made by their family members and the volunteers. It is difficult not to notice the joy on the children’s faces as they pass under their loved ones’ arms. ”Although this volunteer, parent-run national group has for its obvious goal to benefit children with special needs, Don said he feels that the buddies also go home with a great gift. His daughter Christina has been a buddy for the whole season and she said that, in many ways, the experience has touched her life. ‘I’ve worked in my little brother Charlie’s classroom before. I was a volunteer and there was a lot of one-on-one work. But school is tough for everybody. With soccer, the kids are having more fun and their faces light up. It’s wonderful to see that.’ There are some difficulties for the buddies as well. Christina said that she often works with the more disabled children since she has that experience with her brother Charlie at home. But for the most part, she said that all that is required is that one knows the basic rules of soccer and has some coordination. ‘It’s not heavy duty. For anybody who likes kids, it’s great and it’s really fun,’ she said. ‘And it’s not hard to come up once a week and brighten up your whole day in the process.’ ”Don also said he believes in the advantages that youngsters get from being involved in the program. ‘It gives the buddies a greater appreciation of the world, of the life and of the spirit of these kids. Anytime a child with special needs gets to participate in a program like this, everybody benefits.’ ”(Editor’s note: The VIP season ends November 20. A spring VIP season is being organized. If you are interested in registering your child in the VIP program, contact Kathy Slattery at 459-2552. If you are interested in volunteering for VIP, contact Suzanne Randolph at 459-3170.)
