For the Cross family, spreading the word about HIV and AIDS may start at home, but their efforts extend across continents. Inspired by their 14-year-old daughter, Madison, Christopher and Jan and their son, Rain, a senior at Palisades High School, have been fundraising to support AIDS orphans in Africa and raise awareness about the disease. They are planning to travel to the east African countries of Tanzania and Kenya in December to visit some of the orphans and bring them much-needed supplies. While the Crosses know that it’s difficult to prepare emotionally for such a trip, they’re not going ‘cold.’ They recently hosted two orphans from Moshi, a village in the Kilimanjaro region of Tanzania. The girls, Winfrida Stanley, 14, and Nakindya Dismas, 12, traveled to the United States with seven other children from a small shelter. None of the orphans are HIV-positive, but they were either abandoned by their parents or lost them to diseases like AIDS. The children, who are trained dancers and acrobats, were on a performance tour in Los Angeles, Las Vegas and San Francisco to raise money for a larger, self-sustaining facility in Moshi. The trip was organized by American screenwriter Scott Fifer, who founded the TunaHAKI Foundation (‘We have a RIGHT’ in Swahili), a nonprofit organization to support the health and education of orphans and vulnerable street children in Africa. In L.A., the orphans performed at Crossroads, at half-time during a Lakers game at Staples Center, at fundraisers in Bel Air and Beverly Hills, and on the KTLA morning show. “They have their own props and they make their own costumes, which are simple but beautiful,” said Christopher, a singer and songwriter best known for the Oscar-winning song “Arthur’s Theme (Best That You Can Do)” for the film “Arthur.” “They brought their own drums, made with bicycle rims. With meager tools, they put on a really nice show.” Jan added that, after one performance, “they went into the audience and started shaking hands and mingling. They were just very confident. Here are these really shy kids but you put them on this stage’what they know and feel comfortable with’and they’re amazing.” Coming from a shelter that has outdoor cooking and no running water, and where they sleep three to a bed, the orphans had a considerable amount of stimulation during their 18 days in the United States. But the Crosses were impressed not only with how well the girls adjusted to American culture but how affectionate they were. “We were forewarned that Tanzanians in general are really shy people, that they’re more timid [than other Africans],” Jan said, “and the girls were shy, but they were also so loving and trusting. They’d never been in a plane before, never seen the things they saw here–they were shocked that people weren’t walking in the road. Every facet of their lives is different, but they just take it in. The first day, Madison had known them about 45 minutes and they were already holding hands and playing together.” Winfrida and Nakindya communicated mainly through hand gestures and bits of English. “It didn’t take them long to learn the word ‘chocolate’,” said Jan, who introduced them to spaghetti and salmon, the latter of which they devoured. She also taught them how to use a shower’how to turn the faucet on and off and adjust the water temperature so they wouldn’t hurt themselves. The Crosses taught the girls how to play the boardgame “Sorry!” with the help of the founder of their orphanage, David Ryatula, who translated the cards into Swahili. “Winfrida seems to understand more than she can speak,” Jan said after spending five days with the girls. “Nakindya has learned all these phrases and she’s been enamored with the telephone. She wants to take our phone with her, not realizing that you need the whole system. She’ll get on and act like she’s talking and say different phrases in English that she’s learned.” Jan became “Mommy Jan” to Nakindya, who was sick in the early part of her visit. The Crosses took her to their Palisades doctor, Stacy Waneka. “Their village, Moshi, is really polluted,” Jan said. “All the cars put out this black emission and their oven is a wood-burning stove with poor ventilation. So Nakindya came with this horrible cough and the doctor said, ‘She’s hardly getting any air.’ So we had her on a nebulizer and antibiotics, and she just turned into another child. She was just so much happier. Before she was so down, and we just thought she was being very timid.” For Madison, befriending Winfrida and Nakindya was particularly powerful because she is involved with the Crossroads Teen AIDS Ambassadors, an offshoot of the college-level program created by the UCLA AIDS Institute. Madison was trained as an AIDS educator during an intensive, weekend-long session on the UCLA campus in January, and now teaches her peers at various high schools about HIV. “We call it ‘spreading the know’ because knowledge is our only antidote,” said Madison, a singer who has performed individually and with her father and brother to raise money for charitable causes, including AIDS orphans. Jan and Christopher agree that their daughter is not too young to be learning about sexually transmitted infectious diseases, though Jan admitted that ‘it was pretty strange at first when she came home with samples of rubbers, which were part of the presentation that the kids were trained to give.’ ‘She’s learning that there are dangers connected with sex and not protecting yourself,’ Christopher said. ‘The No. 1 liability is denial.’ When the family travels to Tanzania in December, they will all be tested for HIV at a public event in order to demonstrate that it’s not shameful. ‘There is such a stigma over the AIDS virus that people [especially in small villages] are afraid to be tested or speak of it in mixed company,’ Jan said, explaining that men and women don’t talk about it, nor do adults and children. ‘In the major cities, people are more educated, but so many of the people are not in the commercial areas of the country. Currently, there are 1.7 million AIDS orphans in Kenya alone, and in the next three years it’s expected to go up to almost 2 million, so the ignorance is still there and the disease continues to spread. ‘I think that when people [in the United States] start looking at the statistics of the tragedy in Africa, it’s so easy to just be overwhelmed and put it out of your mind, like, ‘I can’t do anything about it. It’s too big,” Jan said. But by embracing the TunaHAKI orphans and supporting another, New York-based nonprofit called Twana Twitu (‘Our Children’), which supports Kenya’s AIDS orphans, the Crosses feel they are making a difference. “I think that while Winfida and Nakindya have enjoyed the television and all the amenities, the thing that the girls are going to miss the most’and I think it’s true of the other TunaHAKI kids’is the mothering, the maternal part of it,” Christopher said. “I think they’ve become very attached to Jan and the kids.” Jan said that the girls have taught her humility. ‘You see these children who are from the worst backgrounds imaginable–other than being ill themselves’and they’re so gentle and kind and appreciative. They just have this sense of self and wisdom.’ Despite a bittersweet ‘goodbye’ on Thanksgiving morning, when Winfrida and Nakindya left to return to Tanzania, Jan assured them that they would see them in less than a month in Moshi. There, the TunaHAKi children and the Crosses will perform for one another in their village. The Crosses are also currently raising $10,000 to purchase mattresses, bedding, and other basic supplies and toys for Twana Twitu’s 220 AIDS orphans, who sleep on dirt floors in their makeshift homes in the impoverished Migwani District northeast of Nairobi, Kenya. They plan to deliver the gifts to the children and ‘grandmothers,’ or caretakers, who will cook for the Crosses during their stay’in tents’in the villages. ‘Every dollar we raise goes to the kids,’ said Christopher, who appreciates that Twana Twitu does not have ‘the administrative overhead’ that some charities have. He added, ‘When you get involved at the grassroots level, you really see that you can do something.’ To learn more about the TunaHAKI Foundation and Twana Twitu, visit tunahaki.org and twanatwitu.org (click on ‘Teen AIDS Ambassadors Join Twana Twitu for Christmas’ to donate).