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Green Tip: Confessions of an ‘Imperfect Environmentalist’

The Palisadian-Post has partnered with locally founded environmental organization Resilient Palisades to deliver a “green tip” to our readers in each newspaper. This edition’s tip was written by Lisa Kaas Boyle, environmental attorney and Resilient Palisades Zero Waste team member.


Nobody’s perfect, but every good thing we do adds up, just as the bad things do.

I am an environmental attorney who has done much to benefit the planet in my career, from helping draft federal legislation that banned plastic microbeads in consumer personal care products to leading the successful legal battle to stop Washington Mutual from building a city in Malibu on Ahmanson Ranch that would have destroyed the Malibu Creek Watershed and Surfrider Beach. (The land is now parkland!)

Courtesy of Sheila Morovati

I try to be environmentally low impact in my personal life—I drive an electric car, I don’t drink bottled water, for example. But, here comes the confession: I am far from a perfect environmentalist.

My friend and fellow Palisadian Sheila Morovati has written a book that speaks directly to me—and to us all.

In “Imperfect Environmentalist: How to Reduce Waste and Create Change for a Better Planet,” Morovati “encourages readers to adopt new behaviors and shift their perspectives so that they, too, can make a difference.”

“Imperfect Environmentalist” also dispels the myth that to be considered an environmentalist, one must be all in, or live “zero waste,” to have a meaningful impact on combating climate change. Small modifications, such as committing to eating eight plant-based meals per week or cutting out plastic utensils, can add up to a large impact.

Each chapter includes 10 action steps for readers to adopt in their daily lives to become more eco-friendly, resulting in a comprehensive manual of creative tips for eliminating “habits of waste.”

Just as Morovati’s book was published, I had a shock when a routine blood test showed my bad cholesterol was high. I couldn’t believe it. I’m thin, I exercise. What could be the cause of this dangerous condition?

My doctor asked me what I ate that week. I began, “Well, besides my morning tea with cream and my oatmeal with whole milk, I made ‘Marry Me Chicken’ for my family … ”

“What’s that?” asked my doctor.

“You take a cup of heavy cream, add parmigiana cheese … ”

He stopped me there: “That should be called ‘Kill Me Chicken!’ You are clogging up your arteries. Anyone in your family have strokes, blood clots … ”

“Ummm, yes and yes.”

“Well, you need to cut all that cream right now.”

I protested, “But my maiden name is Kaas, that’s cheese in Dutch. My father’s people moved from Holland to Wisconsin and kept making cheese. It’s literally in my blood.”

“No kidding … ” said my doctor. “Stop. Now.”

So I did. I await my next blood test to see the impact. But the impact of my ditching dairy, or at least reducing it (I am a Kaas), is not just on me. My action impacts the environment I fight to protect. There have been many Green Tips in this paper written by our Resilient Palisades Vegan Solutions team about the high climate change impact of factory farms and dairy.

So what I do for my own heath, and the health of my family, has an impact on the climate and environment we all share. The familiar adage is that acting locally has a global impact. So true. But the corollary (and coronary!) is that acting personally has a significant impact on our planet.

As imperfect as I am, I am learning, and growing healthier and better all the time. If you want to know more, read Morovati’s book (available at imperfectenvironmentalist.org) and join resilientpalisades.org in our friendly group of imperfect environmentalists working locally toward a better future for us all.

Your Two Cents’ Worth

Coffee

I wish Marquez Knolls had a coffee shop!


Olympics

Excited for Pali High alum and UCLA Bruin Miles Partain, representing USA in the 2024 Paris Summer Olympics in beach volleyball. He is exciting to watch!


Gladstones

With the news of many restaurants having to close, I am glad to see Gladstones offering an updated summer menu. It really is one of my favorite places to eat in town.


Youth

Regarding today’s youth: When was the last time they picked up a fishing pole…a musical instrument…a paintbrush…a pencil to paper. The expression of self now comes only from social media, and it’s draining the pool, creating a future of one-dimensional adults. Reflective experiences and developing interests makes for a well-rounded individual, not the pursuit of a “like”.


Lanes

I just viewed the Tramonto landslide lane adjustment from the pedestrian bridge and I am worried someone on a bike will be injured – there’s no shoulder at all. It looks dangerous.


Hyperion

I was fascinated reading Mr. Appleman’s Green Tip about the Hyperion plant. I learned some new things.


Patrick’s Roadhouse

Can the Post please do an update on Patrick’s Roadhouse? Wondering what happened after the GoFundMe.

(Editor’s note: Yes, we are working on an update for a future edition. Please stay tuned.)


Got something to say? Call 310-454-1321 or email 2cents@palipost.com and get those kudos or concerns off your chest. Names will not be used.

LETTER TO THE EDITOR

Juveniles

I have been made aware, as have many of you, that there have been fights involving juveniles in and around the village, and that videos of these altercations have been circulated online and in local outlets of news and information.

I realize that these instances are concerning to many residents for whom the issue of juveniles acting inappropriately in our community have become increasingly disturbing. Pacific Palisades Community Council has been discussing these matters at our meetings, and we have been helping find solutions by engaging the appropriate agencies.

Earlier in the year, when the disturbances were concentrated at Palisades Recreation Center, we implored the city’s Department of Recreation & Parks to work with us to install cameras that could pan, tilt and zoom to catch inappropriate conduct and help Los Angeles Police Department identify bad actors and address them. We asked LAPD to increase patrols and focus on areas of heightened disturbance.

Through a combination of community vigilance and LAPD allocating discretionary funds for other resources over to us, we were able to root out the disturbances at the park, reducing them markedly.

A few weeks ago, we were informed that the disturbances had moved to the LA City-owned parking lot on Sunset Boulevard. Businesses there had been adversely impacted by youth disturbances and we were asked to help.

At our urging, LAPD increased their patrols in that area after school and encouraged local businesses to hire a private security agency. The combination made a difference, and that area has seen a reduction in the concerning activity.

Still, residents and business owners are disturbed, and have asked to donate money for a plan to put more enforcement support in place. Now, we see video and reports of fights and unequivocally inappropriate, even toxic, activity in our common spaces.

Notably, LAPD has said that with the end of the school year approaching, the juvenile activity that has been occurring after school will noticeably recede, and Palisades Charter High School has sent out an email to all families reminding them of the importance of being aware of children’s whereabouts after school.

The communication stated that recently, there have been “disruptions occurring in the village, which are totally unacceptable,” and they ask parents to “check in with your children and ensure they are engaging in productive activities if they are in the village. Otherwise, they should be heading straight home.”

In light of all this, PPCC is working to craft a public/private partnership pilot where we can support the Council Office as they find a way to allocate some discretionary funding to LAPD, in order to enable an extra 15 to 20 hours of patrols in Pacific Palisades. Both LAPD Captain Rich Gabaldon as well as Councilmember Traci Park have welcomed the idea, and are discussing options.

We will keep the community abreast of developments and will continue to push for a solution. I welcome all ideas and suggestions from the community. Contact PPCC through its website: pacpalicc.org.

Maryam Zar
President, Pacific Palisades Community Council

St. Matthew’s Celebrates New Scoreboard With Ribbon Cutting

Photos courtesy of Leslie Fields

By LILY TINOCO | Assistant Editor

St. Matthew’s Parish School in Pacific Palisades recently celebrated its 75th anniversary with a series of events, kicking off with a “momentous” ribbon-cutting ceremony for a brand new athletics scoreboard.

The event—attended by preschool through eighth-grade students, faculty, staff and parents—marked the inauguration of the school’s new “state-of-the-art” scoreboard for Falcon Athletics. It took place on Blue-White Day, a St. Matthew’s tradition that helps build school spirit with a day of healthy athletic competition for all students to participate.

This year’s Blue-White Day was full of “boundless Falcon spirit,” celebrating with the school’s mascot, Freddie the Falcon, who was cheering students on from the sidelines. The day also welcomed a special guest to the school’s campus: Marty, a real life Lanner falcon, accompanied by falconer Cortney Vargas from Raptor Events.

“Embracing both tradition and progress, St. Matthew’s eagerly anticipates the positive impact of this enhancement on our vibrant community,” according to a statement. “Led by their esteemed Head of School Alley Michaelson, the ribbon-cutting ceremony symbolized a significant milestone in the school’s history.

“From now until next year’s Blue-White Day, the school will honor the rich history of St. Matthew’s Parish School. This milestone year is an opportunity for the entire community to come together and celebrate.”

St. Matthew’s Parish School announced the appointment of Michaelson as head of school on March 14, 2023. Michaelson is St. Matthew’s ninth head of school and the first alumna to take on the role, according to a statement.

“I am overjoyed and grateful to return to St. Matthew’s as the head of school,” Michaelson previously said. “I look forward to honoring the traditions and values St. Matthew’s holds dear while leading the school into its next chapter.”

St. Matthew’s is billed as an Episcopal co-ed school for students in preschool through grade eight. With a tagline of “serve, lead, flourish,” the school operates with a community character covenant, which addresses things like respect, responsibility, honesty, empathy and fairness.

Palisades Neighborhood News

Teen Cancer America to Host Rock ‘N Polo V | Will Rogers State Historic Park

Teen Cancer America, a nonprofit organization founded by musicians Roger Daltrey and Pete Townshend from The Who, will host Rock ’N Polo V at Will Rogers State Historic Park on Saturday, June 15, at 12:30 p.m.

“We are galloping back to the stunning Will Rogers Polo Field for our fifth year of Rock ’N Polo,” Fundraising and Partnerships Director Michelle Aland said to the Palisadian-Post. “We love bringing the majestic sport of polo for a purpose to the Palisades.”

The event raises funds and awareness for the TCA mission, which is to develop specialized facilities and services for teens and young adults fighting cancer.

Festivities will include an afternoon polo match, live music by Ryan Ellis and DJ Von Bellows, and a “gourmet” lunch and desserts. There will be tastings from vendors, like Dolce Vida Tequila and Fall Brewing Company, as well as a silent auction, champagne divot stomp, magicians, raffle and more.

Additional vendors include Kendra Scott, Gifts2Have, Bluestone Sunshields and LA Sports Massage. Snapchat will be on hand with an “augmented reality mirror” for a chance to try out some of the app’s “most popular lenses.”

Children are invited to participate in the Kids Stick Pony Race, as well as an Activity Meadow, complete with henna hand painting, a visit from puppies of A Purposeful Rescue and more.

For more information, including to donate or buy tickets, visit polo24.givesmart.com.

—LILY TINOCO


Class of 1984 Reunion | Pali High

The Palisades High School Class of 1984 will host its 40-year reunion on September 7 at Embassy Suites LAX South Hotel from 6 to 11:30 p.m.

“Together we’ll ‘Rock the Casbah’ and ‘Party Like It’s 1999 (’84),’” wrote event organizers ahead of the reunion.

The reunion committee includes Marni Ivener Galef, Linda Peters Ellrod, Monique Kennedy, Doug Perry and Phyllis Miller, who “are working to make this an amazing celebration.”

Those who want to purchase tickets to attend are invited to register at reunioncommittee.com.

—SARAH SHMERLING


PPCC Board Meeting | Pacific Palisades

Pacific Palisades Community Council will host its next board meeting virtually on Thursday, June 13, beginning at 6 p.m. via Zoom.

The agenda includes guest speaker Kristin Ly, Bureau of Engineering project manager, who will “provide updates on the status of the Lateral Trail from Potrero Canyon to Temescal Canyon [Road],” according to PPCC.

New business on the agenda includes the election of PPCC officers for the 2024-25 term, which is set to begin July 1. The nominees are Sue Kohl (president), Quentin Fleming (vice president), Jenny Li (treasurer) and Beth Holden-Garland (secretary).

“As there are no contested seats, the election will be by acclamation of the board,” PPCC wrote in the agenda.

For the full agenda, including a link to the Zoom, visit pacpalicc.org.        

—SARAH SHMERLING


Thor’s Reptile Family | Palisades Branch Library

Palisades Branch Library will host Thor’s Reptile Family on Friday, June 14, from 3:30 to 4:30 p.m. in a program designed for babies, toddlers and kids.

“Join us for a hands-on, entertaining and educational show featuring arthropods, amphibians and reptiles of all sizes for children of all ages,” read a synopsis of the event. “Go on Safari around the world, learning about various aspects of the animals presented, emphasizing who, how and their feeding habits.”

Herbivores, carnivores, insectivores and omnivores are all slated to be included.        

—SARAH SHMERLING


Father’s Day Concert | Palisades Village Green

The Westside Jazz Ensemble will play a free concert on Father’s Day, Sunday, June 16, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at Palisades Village Green.

“The Westside Jazz Ensemble is an eight-piece jazz octet that has been delighting dance and concert audiences on LA’s Westside for over a decade,” Village Green President Cindy Kirven wrote. “They play four horn arrangements of classic swing melodies from the Great American Songbook.”

The ensemble’s ties to the Palisades include three members of the Palisades Oom PaPa band: dummer Greg Victoroff, tenor sax player David Schorr and Paul Wexler on stand up bass.

“The Westside Jazz Ensemble invites families of all ages to fox trot, jitterbug, sing along and enjoy familiar favorites,” Kirven concluded.

—SARAH SHMERLING

Pali High Honors Seniors During Awards Ceremony

Shawna Ashley, Clementine Causse and Sarah Soroosh Moghadam
Photo by Steve Galluzzo

By STEVE GALLUZZO | Sports Editor

As they wound down the last full week of instruction, Palisades Charter High students were honored for their achievements in the classroom, athletic arena, stage and community at the school’s annual Senior Awards Ceremony on May 29 in Mercer Hall.

Following the pledge of allegiance, the first students to be recognized were valedictorian Matthew S. Lee and salutatorian Jaden Rahmani.

Receiving American Legion Ronald Reagan – Palisades Post 283 Scholarships were Spencer Rodman, Kaylie Haggenmiller, Kellan Ford, Eva Engel and Milo Drake. Then, the Brawerman Fellowship Award was presented to Alexa Raben, and Charter School Foundation Scholarships were given to Jiya Kumar, David Garcia, Noah Simon and Ansar Sherkhanov.

Next, Dick and Debbie Held Ambassador Scholarships were awarded to Camryn Rowles, Talia Aslmand, Alexander Loos, Ashley Molina and Niara Knox, while Leadership Scholarships went to Rustin Kharrazi, Chukwunonso Kojo-Onwaeze, Sydney Meza, Maya Otero and Sophie Szeder.

Szeder and Otero were given certificates from American Red Cross, and Dillon Henry Memorial Scholarships went to Skylar Kane, Jinheon Kim, Heaven Martin, Carter Yean, Kayani Ostojich and Wolfgang Ester.

Adrian White, Natalie Topete and Flynn Messick all received Everett & Nancy McGuire Foundation scholarships, and M.A.T.H. awards went to Gavin Federizio, Jack Hesse and Dominic Zuniga.

Winning the Michele Misetich-Friedlander Memorial Award was Kaela Tagliaferro. Recognized as National Merit Finalists were Olivia Zaidel, Yean, Kai Harting and Zuniga, and acknowledged as semifinalists were Ellery Preven and Adam Sohigian.

Pacific Palisades Optimists Club awards went to Hugo Canseco, Daniel Sanchez-Gomez, Kojo-Onwaeze and Adrian Rincon; Pacific Palisades Woman’s Club Exceptional Young Women Awards for Leadership went to Rowles and Kane; and the Palisades Americanism Parade Association-PAPA Award went to Zaidel.

Booster Club Exceptional Awards for Visual & Performing Arts went to Georgia Jones (Technical Theater Award); Molina and Becker Chaaban (Outstanding Filmmakers); Ostojich (Visual Arts); Federizio (Photography); Casey Chung (Visual Art Award); Axel Mammen (Orchestra Award); Jean Rodriguez (Outstanding Musicianship); Rodman (Theater Award); Sofia Kramer (Ceramics Award); River Tharae (Outstanding Performance); Piper Gooding (Dance); Ja’Liyah Allen (Choir); and Sammy White (Outstanding Writing).

Booster Club DECA Awards were given to Karina Schwartz and Noa Zeidler; Booster Club Envirothon honors went to Shawna Ashley and Jesse Rosen; Booster Justice League Excellence Awards went to Lalo Miali, Drake, Kaitlin Morgan, Knox and Merlot Ghadoushi; Foreign Languages honors went to Abram De Los Santos and Stephanie Estrada; and Yulia Klokova was given the Anita Stephens Memorial Award for Journalism Scholarship.

Booster POSSE Suitcase Award winners were Garcia and Kojo-Onwaeze; PTSA Community Service Scholarships went to Engel, Kumar, Garcia, Canseco, Kane, Rodman and Sophia Bleau.

The Community Service Award was presented to Kim. Six were honored for having perfect attendance in 12th grade: Georgie Barr, Aisha L. Lee, Kaylie Porter, Tyler Roberts, Sorenne Santer and Drake.

Inaugural recipients of the Resilient Palisades Environmental Advocate Award were Ashley, Clementine Causse and Sarah Soroosh Moghadam.

“Resilient Palisades felt it was important to make a deeper connection with the young people in our community because they are the ones that will be most impacted by and left to solve the enormous environmental challenges we all face, especially climate change,” David Rosenstein said on behalf of Resilient Palisades. “The Resilient Palisades Environmental Advocate Award was created to make that connection with youth and to acknowledge, encourage, inspire  and reward exceptional Pali High seniors that have shown a commitment to, and accomplishments in, addressing significant environmental problems.”

Rose Gilbert Memorial Scholarships were given in several categories. Most Inspirational Competitor (ACADEC) honors went to Bleu and Sherkhanov; Academic Excellence honors were given to Lee and Rahmani; Academic Promise recognition went to Brandon Darvish and Stella Simons; Ghadoushi was presented the Courage Award; the “Mama G” Award for Excellence in English Literature went to Luke Schneeman and Parker Field; and Future Educator honors went to Jones and Kane.

See Sports for athletic award winners.

‘The Musical Comedy Murders of 1940’ Opens at Pierson Playhouse

Photos by Sarah Shmerling

By SARAH SHMERLING | Editor-in-Chief

In search of a night of laughter, mystery and intrigue? Look no further than Pierson Playhouse, where “The Musical Comedy Murders of 1940” offers a fast-paced performance, filled with just that—and more.

“A backer’s audition in a mansion in Chappaqua, New York, gathers together a team of successful Broadway show folk, and it turns out one of them is the infamous ‘Stage Door Slasher’—but who?” read a synopsis provided by Theatre Palisades. “The snow falls, the jokes fly, the bodies drop and the power keeps going out as the group tries to find the killer in this hilarious farce.”

Written by John Bishop, the Theatre Palisades iteration is directed by Lee Costello, and produced by Hahnah Jackson and Martha Hunter. The entirety of the two-act play takes place in the library of the mansion over the course of midnight to 5 p.m. one day.

The cast features Michele Schultz in the role of Elsa Von Grossenkneuten (the millionaire owner of the mansion) and her maid/confidant Helsa Wenzel (played by Susan Stangl). Brendan Serapiglia takes on the role of Michael Kelly, an undercover cop that enlists the help of Elsa to try to catch the “Stage Door Slasher” at the mansion.

The “Broadway show folk” (who range from tenor to producer) include Joshua Farrell as Patrick O’Reilly, Steven Frankenfield as Ken De La Maize, Cara Kluver as Nikki Crandall, Ian Riegler as Eddie McCuen, Richard Rosales as Roger Hopewell, Mari King as Bernice Roth and Hunter as Marjorie Baverstock.

“I was a young assistant director at The Circle Repertory Company in New York when John Bishop first wrote and directed this clever comedy,” wrote Costello in the director’s notes. “I had a front row seat as the cast navigated all the twists and turns of the story and brought the play to life. I am so pleased, with the help of my wonderful cast and crew, to bring you this lovely piece of screwball theater.”

Some takeaways after attending opening night: Whether Theatre Palisades picks a play with five roles or 10, it sticks out just how well the actors gel together. This is especially important when it comes to a farce, which is laden with jokes and banter. The topics can be heavy (murder) but the stage stays light as they all play off each other, delivering lines and producing gales of laughter from the audience.

The casting is well done—there are a wide range of big personalities on stage, and each actor fills their respective role and does them justice. And while (no spoilers) some things may not be as they seem, the actors handle the twists and turns deftly. The audience was left surprised at some of the outcomes.

One thing that really sets the show apart is the setting—from the stage (complete with secret revolving doors in bookcases) to the sound effects (the creaking of said bookcases). The audience is transported to the mansion, immersed in a multi-sense experience for the duration of the show, which somehow adds to both the hilarity and more intense moments. Credit and kudos are due to Bayard Saunders (musical director), Sherman Wayne (set and lighting design) and Stangl (sound design).

This particular show sees the return of several actors to the stage, as well as the inaugural performance for others, including Riegler, whose first role was in a play in fifth grade while he was attending Village School in the Palisades. He said it is a “total blessing” to be able to “perform at his local community theater and for the community that raised him.”

“The Musical Comedy Murders of 1940” will run through June 30, with performances on Friday and Saturday nights at 8 p.m., as well as Sundays at 2 p.m.

Tickets for the show are $22 for general admission, or $20 for seniors and students. All performances take place at Pierson Playhouse, located at 941 Temescal Canyon Road.

For more information or to purchase tickets, visit theatrepalisades.org or
call 310-454-1970.

Congratulations to the Class of 2024

The Palisadian-Post has assembled messages for its fifth annual graduation special, celebrating students who live or go to school in the Palisades who are graduating preschool, elementary school, middle school, high school or college with the Class of 2024.

Andrew Lee

Andrew Lee graduated from Loyola High School. He will be attending Johns Hopkins University in August.

 

 

 

 

Keira Ishak

Keira Ishak, Palisades Charter High School Class of 2024, will be attending University of Southern California in the fall. Keira, your future is bright and we can’t wait to see the places you go! Live life to the fullest and give it nothing but your best. Love you so much, Mom, Dad and Ian.

 

 

 

Oliver Miles Field

Oliver Miles Field, Village School Class of 2024, is heading to Crossroads School of Arts & Sciences next year. Third-generation Palisades resident. Son of Sheri Sitrick Field and Kevin Field. Brother to Stella and Layla Field.

 

 

 

Matthew Lee

Matthew Lee, Palisades Charter High School 2024 Valedictorian, will be attending UC Berkeley in the fall for electrical engineering and computer sciences. We’re proud of you and amazed at what you’ve accomplished. As always, have fun, Love Mom and Dad.

 

Molly Steinsapir Early Childhood Center of Kehillat Israel

The Molly Steinsapir Early Childhood Center of Kehillat Israel Class of 2024.

Dear Vany

 

Junior Reporter Vanessa “Vany” Masterson answers her latest set of questions from Palisadian-Post readers. If you have a question you would like to send to Vany, email it to mypost@palipost.com.

Photo courtesy of Jessica Masterson

It makes me sad to even write this but I am not doing well in my math class. Do you have any advice for overcoming not doing well at something, especially when it’s a class at school?

Trust me, I’ve been there before too. One thing I want you to know is that every person at your school, even the ones that are “super smart,” have struggled in a class at school before.

Math can be difficult, but I’ve got some tips for you. The first thing I would do is make an effort to talk to your teacher about your grade and make it clear that you understand that you are struggling and are working to get it up.

Look at your grades, see exactly where you are lacking—whether it is in tests or homework or something else—and be specific and intentional when you talk to them about what you need to do to boost your grade.

I would also see if there is anyone in your area that can tutor you in math. This seems obvious, but I know some people either don’t want to ask for help or don’t want to spend time outside of school doing work, but I’m here to tell you that tutoring can be the absolute most helpful thing when you are struggling in a class.

I would also for sure go to your teacher’s office hours or math lab if they have them. Showing a teacher that you are interested in the material, you just aren’t quite understanding it, will make them like you more.

Another thing is finding the way of studying and understanding that works best for you. Everyone is a different kind of learner. Some like to write things down, others need to hear it out loud, others need to be more hands on. For me, making flashcards and lists of what I need to memorize or complete works best.

You cannot control how your teacher teaches in the classroom, but you can control what you do outside of it to work up to a grade you feel comfortable with. You got this!

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How do you know when it is time to end a friendship? I have had the same friend since elementary school and I feel like we are growing apart now that we’re growing up.

Growing apart is common in friendships, but that doesn’t make it any easier.

The first thing to realize is that the friendships you make when you are in elementary school are completely different from the more complex, intentional friendships you make in middle and high school.

When you are little, you are friends with other kids for very simple reasons. Maybe they are your parents’ friend’s kids, you guys sit at the same table at school, or you both like 4-square.

Trying to keep those childhood friends as you grow and change can be difficult, because you are no longer just a little kid who takes after their parents and talks to every other kid you meet.

But relating to your question of when it’s time for that friendship to end? I don’t believe in ending friendships, unless something really, really bad happens.

Growing apart does not have to mean a full stop to your friendship at all! Not all of your friendships have to be the closest in the whole world, even if they were at some point earlier in life. In my opinion, just texting someone every once in a while and saying “Hi!” in the hallways can be a good enough simple friendship for me.

So while I don’t think your friendship has to be all or nothing, it is also good to know when to start pulling away a little bit. For example, let’s say you have a childhood friend who you have grown apart from a bit, and you are asking them all the time to hang out and get together and they always just say they’re busy and then never ask you in return.

This is a sign that it’s time for your friendship to fade into the simple friendship that I was describing earlier, because they are making it clear that they don’t want anything deeper than that. And that’s okay!

Sad a little? Yes. But if they are giving both of you room to grow apart and still maintain that borderline friendliness between you two, I think that while disappointing at times, this is a very real and honest way to slow down a friendship.

What I wouldn’t do in this situation is keep asking over and over, and almost begging them to hang out with you or be close to you. If they are showing you that they don’t want to be close, then why would you want to be close either?

One thing to remember throughout all of this is that even though friendships that you make as a little kid are very special, many more equally special, important and amazing friendships will come to you as you get older and keep growing.

Never worry about a shortage of friends. For every person who doesn’t want to be your close friend, there are at least five other people that do.

So as you grow, join activities at school, keep talking to people, and who knows, maybe your old bestie will wind up in one of those too!

The Practice of Real Estate as a Science and an Art

Michael Edlen

By MICHAEL EDLEN | Special to the Palisadian-Post

Real estate is often viewed purely through the lens of transactions and investments, but it encompasses much more. It is a profession that blends both art and science, requiring a diverse set of skills. To become proficient in real estate, one must engage in continuous practice, honing the craft’s analytical and creative aspects.

Real Estate as a Science

1. Data Analysis and Market Trends

Real estate as a science relies heavily on data analysis. Professionals use various tools and software to evaluate homes, analyze market trends, predict property values, and forecast market shifts. This data-driven approach lets agents make informed decisions, ensuring clients receive the best advice possible.

Of course, this requires an understanding of the economics of real estate, such as how supply and demand result in an absorption rate, what impact changes in interest rates make on the market, etc. It also involves an understanding of risk assessment and loan qualifications.

2. Legal and Regulatory Knowledge

Understanding the legal and regulatory framework is crucial. Real estate professionals must stay updated on laws, contracts and regulations, including property CC&Rs, which requires ongoing education and practice. This knowledge ensures that transactions are compliant, and protects the client and the agent.

With the current nationwide legal changes in process, new forms and procedures result in a significant shift in how buyers and sellers will relate with and compensate their agents. Current challenges relating to insurability have also become an essential element for agents to understand fully.

3. Technical Skills

Technical skills in the use of various contract and disclosure forms are fundamental. Utilizing technology for communications and transaction efficiency is also essential.

These skills enable agents to keep track of a myriad of details, maintain copious records and be responsive to unexpected and often critical events that may determine the success or failure of a transaction.

Real Estate as an Art

1. Personal Touch and Client Relationships

The art of real estate lies in building strong client relationships. Successful agents excel at establishing rapport and trust, tailoring their approaches to meet individual client needs and preferences.

This personal touch is what often differentiates one agent from another. It requires understanding and adhering to the complete requirements of fiduciary responsibility and role with their client.

That, in turn, necessitates that the agent be as objective as possible, and make every effort to put the client’s interests and needs above their own desires or hopes.

It also involves a significant understanding of the role psychology plays in the process and appreciating that emotional factors will almost always determine the decisions all parties involved make.

2. Creative Marketing and Presentation

Creativity in marketing and presentation is vital. Crafting compelling property listings, assisting in premarketing property preparations, staging homes attractively and implementing innovative marketing strategies are all part of the artistic side of real estate. These efforts can significantly enhance a property’s appeal and marketability, thus ensuring a better result for the client.

3. Negotiation and Problem Solving

Negotiation is an art form within real estate. Finding win-win solutions and creatively resolving issues that arise during transactions require high skill and experience.

Effective problem solving often involves thinking outside the box and adapting quickly to new challenges. It frequently requires reaching out to other agents and enrolling their support in the mutual best interests of their clients.

It also can be critically important to seek out the most successful combinations of actions that resolve a situation that might appear to have no solution.

Conclusion

In conclusion, real estate is a unique profession that requires a balance of scientific knowledge and artistic skill. Success in this field depends on effectively merging these two aspects.

Continuous learning and intentional practice are essential for mastering the diverse skills needed in real estate. By embracing both the art and science of real estate, professionals can achieve great success and provide exceptional service to their clients.


Michael Edlen has been a leading consultant in real estate for 30-plus years and is available for a complimentary and confidential conversation upon request at 310-600-7422 or michael@edlenteam.com.