By KAREN GOLDBERG | Special to the Palisadian-Post
When you send your 18-year-old off to college, take the following steps to make sure you can still continue to help them when needed.
Once your child turns 18, they are legally an adult and parents lose their legal authority to make decisions on their behalf. Academic information, medical directives and bank account access require authorization by your student before they leave for school. Discuss this change in “rights of access” with your student and ask them if they will sign documents allowing you to intercede on their behalf.
FERPA Release: With the student’s permission, this allows parents to speak to the college about academic performance. Many colleges have their own FERPA waiver—ask for a copy.
HIPPA Authorization: This allows parents to speak directly with student’s doctors and access their health records. Including the Advance Care Directive for Health Care also allows parents to act on their student’s behalf in the event they are incapacitated and unable to make medical decisions for themselves.
Bank Account Transfers: Allows parents to easily transfer monies. Major banks usually have ATMs and branch offices near college campuses to minimize fees.
College students are working toward independence and taking on the responsibility of living away from home. Some students handle this seamlessly and others may struggle with it. Having
an open communication with parents and students before they depart sets the stage for a smooth transition.
Karen Goldberg, independent education consultant with Right Fit College Decision, can be reached at 310-994-1631 or karen@
rightfitcollegedecision.com.
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