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A Note of Grief—and of Hope

After 97 Years, the Palisadian-Post is Closing

By ALAN SMOLINISKY | Owner

You hold in your hands the final regular issue of the Palisadian-Post. After 97 years, this pillar of our town will be no more. Our reporters have chased their last stories. Our presses have printed their last copies. Our corner newsstands have opened for the last time. After the unimaginable sorrow and destruction of the past year, losing this beloved institution feels like a final blow.

Even as I write these words, I can’t believe it. The Pali Post has always been here.

The Pali Post was here when my parents came to town in 1975. They were Argentine immigrants who moved to America with nothing, and while they’d been in the country for a few years, they truly found what they were looking for when they found the Palisades. They put down their entire savings on their very first home on Seabreeze Drive. They put down roots by starting their family in that house. They put this community at the center of their lives. And for the next five decades, they read every word this paper printed.

The Pali Post was here when my sister and I were growing up. I read it every week—my parents had to read it after I was done. The feel of the newsprint, the noise it makes when you turn the page—there’s nothing like it. From a young age, I knew it brought our town together. I heard retirees gossiping about The Mr. and Miss Palisades contest that my mother organized for over two decades. I saw families line up to buy their copy on Thursday mornings after getting coffee in the village. I saw kids flipping through the Sports section looking for coverage of their Little League games, just like me. Everyone found something to love, every week.

The Pali Post was here when I moved back after college. I subscribed immediately, and when my girlfriend and I started talking about marriage, I told her I couldn’t live anywhere else. We got married and published our wedding announcement in the Pali Post. Soon after, we started our own family in town. We built our forever home, and like my parents, we’ll never leave.

The Pali Post was still here in 2012, even as other newspapers had started to close. It was struggling, so I bought it. I love the Pali Post because I love the Palisades. This paper is our town in miniature—committed, conversational and a little bit quirky. It’s the definition of a community paper, uniting people across the many divisions that define our time.

But now the Pali Post will no longer be here.

This is the hardest decision I’ve ever made. It’s all the harder because we nearly survived. Everyone knows that newspapers have struggled. Everyone knows that many have shut down from coast to coast. But at the Pali Post, we kept going strong for so long.

We got up to 6,200 subscribers—a huge feat for a town like ours. Some years, we broke even. Most years, we lost money. But every year, we did incredible work. The investigative takedown of Denton Jewelers. The hard-hitting exposé on the Ruthless Ryderz motorcycle club. But the best thing we ever published came out every week since our first issue in 1928—Two Cents, always there on page two.

This time last year, we still had a future. But it burned up in the fire, like most of the town. We lost the few businesses that still bought advertising. They were either destroyed or had no customers. Worst of all, we lost the one thing we can’t do without—our readers. The Palisades became a ghost town in the wake of the fire. Subscriptions basically fell to zero. It’s completely understandable. But you can’t print a newspaper nobody reads.

Many people knew this was coming. I’ve been floored by the letters of support we’ve received in the last year. Longtime readers even sent us donations—a few bucks here, a hundred-dollar bill there. That community spirit, that deep generosity, speaks volumes about this special place we all call home. And it says something profound about our shared future.

Pacific Palisades has never been defined by a paper. We’re defined by our people, who are just as committed to the town as ever. By the grace of God, my home was one of the few that didn’t burn down. We’re not going anywhere. My daughter and I recently drove through the Alphabet Streets and counted 40 homes under construction. People are coming back, slowly but surely. And make no mistake: We are not just rebuilding the Palisades—we are forging a stronger, more resilient town than ever before.

So, even as I’m filled with grief, I’m filled with hope. We’ll rebuild our homes and our businesses. We’ll welcome a new generation of families to town. And maybe, in time, we’ll restore this treasured institution. A town like ours needs a newspaper.

Today, however, this is goodbye. But today is also a day of gratitude.

To the entrepreneurs and owners who came before me—thank you for giving our town this gift.

To the generations of reporters who walked the beat—thank you for holding the powerful accountable and bringing joy into so many homes.

And to all our readers—past and present—thank you for 97 years of partnership. You were the best part of the Palisadian-Post. Newspaper or not, you will continue to make Pacific Palisades the best place anyone could ever live.

Community Fills Monument Street for Annual Christmas Tree Lighting

The Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony
Photo courtesy of Getty Images/Caruso

By SARAH SHMERLING | Editor-in-Chief

Thousands of community members gathered along Monument Street for the annual Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony at Palisades Village on the evening of Saturday, December 6, while plans are underway for a Menorah Lighting on Sunday, December 14.

“It was never even a question that we would do this,” Rick Caruso, founder and executive chairman of Caruso, which developed and operates Palisades Village, said when asked by the Palisadian-Post why it was important to continue the tradition of the tree lighting this year. “We’re part of this community, and this community needs a way to come together and celebrate. We’re just so proud to have it happen.”

Ahead of the ceremony, while a band performed, attendees were invited to browse a Holiday Market, which included food, drinks and crafts, including writing letters to Santa in partnership with Steadfast LA and personalized ornament calligraphy.

Hot cocoa and mulled wine were provided by Angelini Ristorante & Bar, with Bay Theater, Blue Ribbon Sushi, K Bakery, King Kone Ice Cream, Pacific Palisades Baseball Association and Sunset Smash providing food options.

“It’s incredibly tough,” Caruso said of the effects on the community of the Palisades fire, “but this community is so resilient and you can just see it from the spirit out here today, and I love it. I just feel so grateful to be a part of this. I really do, I feel very lucky.”

Before PPBA Commissioner Bob Benton officially opened the ceremony, performers took the stage, including Eloise Geller who sang “River” by Joni Mitchell and a three-person drumline.

While on stage, Benton acknowledged Los Angeles Fire Department Station 69 and Los Angeles Police Department. He spoke on the “tough time” the community was facing, but that “it’s Christmas, and we got a tree.”

Benton welcomed Co-Honorary Mayors of Pacific Palisades Ted McGinley and Gigi Rice to the stage next, who welcomed the community saying, “This tree represents Pacific Palisades.”

“Every light, every bulb, is every one of you,” McGinley said, adding that it is “more beautiful as a collective.”

Palisadian Jimmy Dunne, who runs the bocce leagues at Veterans Gardens, led a sing-along of “White Christmas,” joined by Village School, St. Matthew’s Parish, Geller, The Adderley School, Jason McGee Choir and community as snow fell. The ceremony concluded with Santa Claus. who came on stage to light the tree, followed by additional snowfall.

The Palisades Village tree is a 50-foot white fir, which was “hand-selected from the Mt. Shasta region.” It is adorned with “more than 1,500 ornaments.”

“It’s going to be a tough Christmas,” Caruso said, acknowledging the people and kids that lost their homes. “I think the way you get through it is the community doing this. We’re all going to be locked arms and get through it together.”

A previous Menorah Lighting Ceremony
Photo by Sarah Shmerling

Another annual tradition that will return to Palisades Village is the Menorah Lighting Ceremony on Sunday, December 14—the first night of Hanukkah. It will be presented in partnership with Chabad Jewish Community Center of Pacific Palisades.

Doors to the event will open at 4 p.m. with a ceremony set to begin at 5 p.m. The event will include live music, family-friendly activities, Hanukkah refreshments and a blessing from Chabad Rabbi Zushe Cunin.

“We are going to create the most spectacular unifying experience together,” Cunin said. “The community has been through so much. We need to find ways to bring everyone together and celebrate.”

Apart from the community events, Palisades Village remains temporarily closed until August 2026.

“We’re going to be fully open,” Caruso said. “We’ve got a lot of great retailers coming back, a lot of great restaurants … the community is coming back and we want to be here for them—we will be here for them.”

City Council Delays Palisades Fire Fee Waiver Vote

The Alphabet Streets in November
Photo by Chuck Larsen Photography

By SARAH SHMERLING | Editor-in-Chief

Los Angeles City Council postponed a vote on waiving reconstruction permit and plan check fees for residents of Pacific Palisades affected by the January fire during a meeting on Tuesday, December 2, referring the discussion back to the Budget and Finance Committee.

Permit and plan check fees have been suspended since April when Mayor Karen Bass issued an Emergency Executive Order, but a full waiver of fees requires approval from City Council.

“This Executive Order directs city departments to refrain from collecting permit and plan check fees associated with the repair or reconstruction of homes damaged or destroyed by the wildfires in January, pending City Council’s adoption of an amendment to waive these fees,” a statement read at the time. “Additionally, the Emergency Executive Order requests the City Attorney to prepare and present for Council’s consideration the draft urgency ordinance to waive the fees.”

On December 2, City Council considered two reports: one from the Budget and Finance Committee written for single-family homes and duplex rebuilds up to 110% of their original size projected to amount to $86 million and a second from the Ad Hoc Committee for LA Recovery projected to be up to $278 million that covers a full waiver, including homes, businesses, condominiums and apartments, regardless of the size of the rebuild.

When pressed by Councilmember Traci Park about the Budget and Finance Committee report only including single-family homes and duplexes, the response was that City Council could amend it further to be “more expansive” and include the additional types of properties.

In attendance were dozens of residents, many of whom spoke during public comment—with others cut off, due to cited time constraints.

“My house burned down, as did pretty much everyone I know,” said Sue Kohl, president of Pacific Palisades Community Council speaking as a resident during public comment. “Lost everything and have been working my entire life, and now being forced to take retirement savings to help pay to build back a house. I have no desire for a new house. I love my old house. Funky as it was, I would take it any day of the week.

“My request to all of you,” Kohl continued, addressing members of City Council, “is to please, please put yourselves in our shoes and try and think what it would feel like to have lost everything you’ve ever owned in your whole life, the underinsured or uninsured, and have to build back.”

Rich Wilken spoke on his family ties to the community, including fifth-generation Palisadian grandchildren.

“Our home of 46 years burned on January 7,” Wilken said. “Three generations of our family were living in our modest, 1,200-square-foot home when it burned … Please help us seniors have a chance to afford to return home.”

Questions were raised during the meeting about property owners who potentially wanted to rebuild beyond 110% under the Budget and Finance Committee report, asking if their fees would be partially covered up to the 110% threshold or if they would be exempt from assistance. An answer was not available at the time of the meeting.

“Colleagues, just a basic reminder: absolutely nothing, nothing about this rebuild is voluntary, not for anyone who lost their home or their property on January 7,” Park said. “It doesn’t matter whether it was a home, rented or owned, or whether it was a beloved local business or whether it was a multi-family building their grandparents bought in the 1960s. Absolutely none of it—none of it—is voluntary.”

Park spoke on residents’ experience on January 7, facing “terrifying evacuations” and having “their entire community” taken “from them”: “All of it taken from them in a catastrophe that was no fault of their own.”

“These are not voluntary remodels,” Park continued. “Literally no one asked for this … They are trying to rebuild their lives. Thousands of them were under or uninsured, again, through no fault of their own … these are people who are grappling with gut-wrenching decisions right now about what to do. These people are on the brink of calling it a total loss and walking away.”

Park said that her ask is that City Council does “the right thing” and adopt the Ad Hoc Committee report, but if it moves forward with the Budget and Finance report, to adopt a “friendly amendment,” including items like a sunset date on January 7, 2032, waiving the fees for properties that would be ineligible if the report is adopted but have had their fees suspended following the April Executive Order, and to include condos, town homes, apartments, and mobile home parks.

Following additional discussion among members of the City Council, they referred the item back to the Budget and Finance Committee.

“As many of you have been following, this week, council referred the discussion around fee waivers back to the Budget and Finance Committee,” Bass wrote on Sunday, December 7. “While the legislative process proceeds, I will continue to advocate for a fee waiver ordinance to be approved by council to provide critical relief.”

The discussion will continue in Budget and Finance Committee before it returns to the full council. There was no timeline for its return at press time.

“I’m fighting to ensure the broadest relief possible as the item heads back to the Budget Committee,” Park said on December 6.

‘Return to Joy’: Community to Celebrate 76th Annual Holiday HoHoHo!

Photo by Steve Galluzzo

By SARAH SHMERLING | Editor-in-Chief

With a theme of “Return to Joy,” the 76th annual Pacific Palisades Holiday HoHoHo! will take place on Saturday, December 13, from 1 to 4 p.m. at the Lowe Family YMCA Christmas Tree Lot.

“This year’s theme, ‘Return to Joy,’ reflects the community’s resilience and unity following the devastating January fires,” read information about the event. “The HoHoHo! will once again bring neighbors together with live entertainment, children’s activities, crafts, treats and the warm, festive spirit that defines Pacific Palisades.”

Marking its 76th year as a “cherished, local holiday tradition,” the annual event is organized by “dedicated community volunteers,” which are known as “the Elves.”

“The HoHoHo! has always been about showing up for one another,” event organizers said in a statement. “This year, returning to joy means lifting each other up, celebrating together and reminding our community of its strength.”

Festivities are set to include performances—including Fancy Feet Dance Studio, Gerry Blanck’s Martial Arts Center and area singers—food and drink, games, crafts, decorating, and snow. There is no cost to attend: “Just bring your holiday spirit,” organizers encouraged.

“A highlight of the event is the arrival of Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus, continuing a treasured tradition,” the description continued. “Families are invited to meet them and take photos, creating holiday memories to last a lifetime.”

This year’s community partners include Lowe Family YMCA (formerly Palisades-Malibu YMCA), Pacific Palisades Community Council, Resilient Palisades, Palisades Recovery Coalition, Pacific Palisades Historical Society, Palisades Garden Cafe, Team Palisades, Palisades Charter High School Ambassadors, Palisades Village Green, Flour Pizzeria & Cafe, Marquez Charter Elementary School, Palisades Dolphin Strong, PaliStrong, Palisades Builders Coalition, Palisades Beautiful, Theatre Palisades, Pacific Palisades Library Association, The Parish of Saint Matthew, and Cinque Terre West.

The tree lot is located at Simon Meadow, at the corner of Temescal Canyon Road and Sunset Boulevard. It is open for the season Monday to Friday from 3 to 6 p.m. and Saturday and Sunday from 12 to 6 p.m.

For more information, visit instagram.com/palihohoho. Questions can also be directed to palihohoho@gmail.com. RSVPs can be made at eventbrite.com/e/ho-ho-ho-holiday-event-tickets-1968891264774.

Neighborhood News

Courtesy of Palisades Beautiful

Pacific Palisades | Cleanup Events

There will be two community cleanup events in Pacific Palisades on Sunday, December 14.

The office of Councilmember Traci Park will host a community cleanup beginning at 8:30 a.m. at Palisades Village Green (15280 Sunset Boulevard).

“Let’s work together to make a positive impact on our community,” read a flyer for the event. “We look forward to seeing you there.”

Gloves and trash bags will be provided for those who participate.

Then, Palisades Beautiful, with support from Park’s office, will present a beautification event from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. on West Bowdoin Street.

“We’ll be working on Bowdoin Street to remove invasive plants, clean up trash and get new plants in the ground,” Palisades Beautiful wrote. “We need your help restoring planters around Pali High with native plants, cleaning up the sidewalk along Bowdoin Street and removing invasive weeds.”

For more information, visit palisadesbeautiful.org.

—SARAH SHMERLING

Rustic Canyon | TCA Annual Meeting

Temescal Canyon Association will host its annual meeting on Saturday, December 13, from 11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. in person at Rustic Canyon Recreation Center (601 Latimer Road) and virtually via Zoom.

Guest speakers will include Beth Pratt (regional executive director of California National Wildlife Federation and Save LA Cougars) and Richard Fink (district superintendent for California State Parks) who will speak on “the trails and sites impacted by the Palisades fire.” The 2026 TCA Board of Directors will also be elected during the meeting.

To RSVP or ask questions, email jamesalexakislawyer@gmail.com with TCA Annual Meeting RSVP in the subject line.

—SARAH SHMERLING

Santa Monica | Theatre Palisades Christmas Radio Show

Theatre Palisades Membership Entertainment and Theatre Palisades Actors’ Troupe will present their 12th annual Christmas Radio Show on Wednesday, December 17, at 7:30 p.m. at Morgan-Wixson Theatre (2627 Pico Boulevard).

The 60-minute show will be the “beloved Charles Dickens’ classic tale”: “A Christmas Carol.” Hot apple cider and holiday treats will be served at 7 p.m. There will also be a raffle and visit from Mrs. Claus.

Tickets are free, but attendees are asked to RSVP in advance at theatrepalisades.org. Donations are “greatly appreciated” and will go toward the Theatre Palisades Building Fund. Canned goods are also being accepted as donations for Westside Food Bank.

—SARAH SHMERLING

‘Jimmy Dunne Says’

Photo courtesy of Getty Images/Caruso

The Palisadian-Post presents an homage to Will Rogers’ column, “Will Rogers Says,” with a column by Palisadian Jimmy Dunne—on life in the “greatest town in America.


Last Saturday, two events happened in town that reminded us of something …

Our Palisades Village

As the sun slipped behind the mountains, our Palisades Village came alive.

The streets were bustling with families and friends, many seeing each other for the first time in almost a year. Some who have moved back, many who just came back to feel this.

Friends from schools, and from churches and synagogues, from sports teams, from clubs, store owners, and many pals from just around town.

For an evening, it was a winter wonderland. The town Christmas tree stood as the backdrop. Everything was on the house—from Sunset Smash and ice cream trucks to endless booths and fun, generous surprises for kids of every age.

Kids from town—from the Village School, St. Matthew’s, Adderley School and Eloise Geller—were the couldn’t-be-more-perfect stars of the show.

As snow magically began to fall, I had the honor of leading 2,000 unshakable Palisades voices, of every age imaginable, singing their hearts out to “I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas.”

It wasn’t a concert. It was communion.

The American Legion

Cut to an hour later, across Sunset at the American Legion.

It was absolutely transformed into an elegant, cozy winter lodge, packed to the brim with wonderful Palisadians. Many were from our bocce leagues. Many were just … us.

Our Co-Honorary Mayors, Ted McGinley and Gigi Rice, were part of the fun. And Traci Park. And Rick Caruso. The band was led by our own maestro, Jai Winding. Three adorable, powerhouse “Jingle Bellas” singers lifted the roof.

The world-renowned Jason McGee Gospel Choir huddled around each other in the hallway before the show. They put their hands together in the middle, and Jason led them in a prayer—asking that they bring joy and comfort with their gift of song.

That, my friends, they did. Oh, they did.

But the real show wasn’t on the stage.

The real show was the audience.

Laughing together, singing together, and for a couple of hours, 200 hearts breathing in rhythm. They held and hugged each other, and stood as one—belting out our town song.

Palisades “Reindeer Awards” were given to extraordinary neighbors—people who have quietly hitched themselves to the front of our sleigh this year … and pulled.

Because that’s what a reindeer does.

They bring you home.

To Tracey Price, for passionately watering our trees and parkways. To Maryam Zar, for gathering people, resources and courage when we needed all three. To Sue Kohl, for tirelessly captaining the ship of our town council. To Sue Pascoe, our town crier, who has spent years telling myriad stories of everyone and everything in our town.

And to our beloved Traci Park—for fearlessly standing up to the city to do their job.

Five Reindeer.

They reminded each of us to think about the “reindeer” in our own lives this past year. Those dearest to us who have selflessly helped pull us through chaos toward something like order and grace.

The Tree

But there was one more moment I can’t shake.

Earlier that evening, back at the Village, as the sun had set beneath the mountains, we were all asked to look at something.

A tree.

A stunning, living tree—right in front of all of us.

In that moment, it stood for something far bigger than itself.

As we stood there together, that tree came alive.

Twenty-four thousand lights.

Lights of joy. Of happy. Of kindness. Of goodness.

And in that moment, we didn’t see a tree at all. We saw ourselves.

Each of us, in one of those lights.

The tree spoke to us.

Reminding us of that night in January when a fire came to burn down our town.

When 24,000 of us grabbed what we could, buckled our kids into cars and drove away.

It raged through our neighborhoods—through homes and condos, apartments and mobile homes. It gutted many of our schools, our churches and synagogues, and the stores that had always felt like living rooms.

But standing there, looking at that tree, we all realized something.

The town was never the buildings.

The town was standing right there … staring up at that tree.

We were the lights.

The parents and grandparents.

The kids on scooters and in strollers.

The families in temporary rentals.

The couples sleeping on friends’ couches.

The ones staying with relatives across town.

Our neighbors who have already found their way back home.

Every heartbeat in that crowd was a light.

And those lights—our lights—are what make the Palisades the Palisades.

Not the places. Not even the views.

The Palisades is the way we show up for one another when everything feels broken.

It’s the Traceys and Maryams and Sues and Tracis of our lives.

It’s a band, a choir and a room full of neighbors who will stand up and sing until their throats are raw.

It’s 24,000 lights, still shining, even after the flames.

That’s why the Palisades was, and is and will be a place that honors integrity. Honors family. Honors belonging. Honors the treasure, the absolute treasure, of this amazing shot we have at the gift of life.

Twenty-four thousand lights.

One town.

One absolutely beautiful town.


Jimmy Dunne is a modern-day Renaissance Man; a hit songwriter (28 million hit records), screenwriter/producer of hit television series, award-winning author, an entrepreneur—and a Palisadian “Citizen of the Year.” You can reach him at j@jimmydunne.com or jimmydunne.substack.com.

Your Two Cents’ Worth

Palisades Village

I am still smiling from the tree lighting. It was so magical and I loved seeing so many friends and neighbors.

Eagles

Congratulations to the new Eagle Scouts. What an accomplishment during any year, but especially 2025.

Elizabeth Lamont

Every store reopening gives me hope. I send well wishes to Elizabeth Lamont, and hopes for a busy holiday season for the store.

Traditions

Thank you to the Turkey Trot organizers, the Interfaith Council, Rick Caruso and team, the HoHoHo! organizers, and YMCA for continuing our local traditions, despite the circumstances.

Palisades Forever

Palisades Forever found unique way to support community members, with Rick Steil. I enjoyed reading about the yearbook effort.


Got something to say? Call 310-454-1321 or email 2cents@palipost.com and get those kudos or concerns off your chest. Names will not be used.

Crime Report

Burglary

Marquez Avenue, November 16 at 10:30 a.m. Suspects forced entry through the front door, took two paintings valued at $11,800 and fled through the front door.

Lachman Lane, November 22 at 9:30 a.m. Suspects forced patio sliding door off the tracks, entered, ransacked, and removed two designer purses and a bottle of cognac (loss of $20,000).


Provided by LAPD Senior Lead Officer Brian Espin. In case of emergency, call 911. To report a non-emergency, call 877-275-5273.

Green Tip

The Palisadian-Post has partnered with locally founded environmental organization Resilient Palisades to deliver a “green tip” to our readers in each newspaper. This edition’s tip was written by Resilient Palisades Board Member and Communications Director Sara G. Marti.


Arecent New York Times report highlighted the fact that lung cancer rates are rising among women who never smoked. Women are now diagnosed at higher rates than men in this category, a disparity that should force us to reexamine the environmental exposures inside our own homes.

Gas stoves and other gas appliances release nitrogen dioxide, carbon monoxide, benzene and fine particulate matter. These are all pollutants linked to respiratory illness.

For years, families were told gas was “clean.” We now know indoor air quality plays a far larger role in lung health than previously understood. And with wildfire smoke already exposing families to carcinogens and lung irritants, adding indoor gas pollution only increases the cumulative burden on our lungs.

That’s why rebates for gas appliances, marketed specifically to wildfire survivors and families rebuilding, are so troubling. These incentives seize on a moment when residents are overwhelmed and vulnerable, encouraging them to reinstall gas systems that can no longer be included in standard new construction under Los Angeles’ all-electric mandate. Promoting appliances the city is actively phasing out, while lung cancer rises among women, is irresponsible.

As communities rebuild, we should not be subsidizing systems that undermine our health. Cleaner indoor air should be the minimum standard we protect, not the exception.

Seeking Support

Dr. Zelana Montminy
Photo courtesy of Dr. Zelana Montminy

Local Resources Are Available for Palisadians Seeking Support This Holiday Season

By SARAH SHMERLING | Editor-in-Chief

With the holidays underway and the one-year anniversary of the Palisades fire approaching, there are several avenues where community members can find extra support. From grief groups to local events and “gentle practices” to try, here are a few options.

Dr. Zelana Montminy

Palisadian Dr. Zelana Montminy is a behavioral scientist and clinical psychologist who specializes in “resilience, the nervous system and the emotional toll of modern life.”

“January 7 changed so much for us,” Montminy shared. “Like many families, we lost our kids’ two schools, their dance studio, our doctors, and the parks and fields they grew up on, so many of the everyday anchors that made life feel familiar. Someone was thankfully able to save our house structurally, but the inside was covered in ash and toxins like lead, so we spent nearly a year displaced while we remediated and renovated. Most of our closest friends lost their homes entirely, which added another layer of collective heartbreak.”

She described it as a “rare kind of layered loss” that “affects not just your belongings, but also the entire ecosystem of your life.”

“The places you go every day, the people you see, the rituals and routines that quietly hold your family together … suddenly gone all at once,” she continued. “It creates a sense of disorientation that’s hard to articulate.”

She described that through all of it, she has “never felt more supported” or “connected” to her community, with people showing up “in ways that still bring” her to tears.

“My kids have modeled a kind of resilience you can’t teach; you only earn it by living through something hard,” she described. “We’re grateful to have moved back to the Palisades a few weeks ago, and in many ways, it feels like we’re pioneers returning. But the emotional impact of that day is still unfolding. Healing from something like this isn’t linear; it comes in waves.”

As the holidays approach, Montminy explained that the people are feeling a “mix of exhaustion, gratitude and emotional whiplash.”

“There’s pressure to be festive while still carrying a year’s worth of unprocessed grief,” Montminy described. “For many, the holidays bring up what they lost, whether it was a home, a sense of safety, community rhythms or simply the version of themselves they were before the fire.”

Montminy shared a “few gentle practices” that can “make a meaningful difference” through the holidays:

Name what you’re feeling. Grief gets heavier when we pretend it’s not there. Even saying, “This season feels complicated” can ease the emotional load.

Regulate your body. Grief lives in the nervous system. Hydration, morning sunlight, movement, steady breathing all help reset stress signals.

Lower the bar. This may not be the year for elaborate traditions. Choose what feels nourishing rather than performative.

Create small anchors. A walk with a friend, lighting a candle for what was lost, a pause before the day begins … rituals help the body feel contained.

Stay connected. Co-regulation is very real. Spending time with grounded, supportive people helps calm the nervous system in ways we often can’t do alone.

“I want Palisadians to know that whatever you’re feeling right now is completely valid,” Montminy said. “Recovery isn’t linear, and grief doesn’t follow a schedule. You’re not ‘behind,’ you’re not overreacting and you’re not alone. Our community has shown remarkable strength not by pretending everything is fine, but by continuing to show up for one another through one of the hardest years we’ve ever lived. If this season feels heavier than you expected, it doesn’t mean you’re going backward. It means you’re human. And you’re still healing.”

With the one-year anniversary of the fire approaching next month, Montminy noted that “anniversaries of trauma activate the nervous system.”

“Even if someone isn’t consciously thinking about the date, the body often remembers,” she explained. “I expect an uptick in anxiety, irritability, sleep changes and emotional tenderness. Some people may feel heavy without knowing why; others may feel unexpectedly proud of their resilience and shocked that they’re still processing everything. There is no ‘correct’ reaction. For some, the anniversary will resurface grief; for others, it will highlight gratitude for what’s been rebuilt. For many, it will be both.”

When it comes to her work, Montminy said it brings together psychology, neuroscience and tools to help people navigate stress, grief and attention in a “world that constantly pulls us in every direction.”

“In recent years, my work has centered even more on attention, nervous system health and the emotional residue that follows major stressors or communitywide events like what our town has experienced this past year,” Montminy explained.

Beginning in January, Montminy will create a “more intimate space” where she will host live conversations, Q&As and a monthly book club. She will also be holding a private monthly Zoom focused on rebuilding attention, grounding the nervous system and strengthening “our sense of community after such a destabilizing year.”

She shared that she has something “really exciting in the works” that she is not at liberty to share yet, but will offer a “space for deeper conversations, stories and perspectives.”

“Follow me on Instagram (instagram.com/dr.zelana) to be part of that announcement,” Montminy said, “and to join a built-in community navigating this year with honesty, science and real support.

She also offers free resources on her website (drzelana.com), with plans to release “more substantial downloadable tools over the coming months” to help people “process overwhelm, grief and the emotional aftershocks of this experience.”

“I’ll continue offering community conversations, workshops and in-person gatherings because healing alongside others who truly understand what you’ve lived through is incredibly powerful,” she said.

Montminy will join fellow Palisadians Dr. Dolly Klock (founder of ADOLESSONS) and Michelle Villemaire (designer, TV host and creator of UNBURNABLE: Women of the Palisades Fire) for a panel discussion “From Ruin to Resilience: Grief, Focus and the Future We Choose” at Calvary Christian School on January 8, 2026, from 6:30 to 8 p.m.

For more information or to RSVP, visit eventbrite.com/e/from-ruin-to-resilience-grief-focus-and-the-future-we-choose-tickets-1835599009049.

griefHaven

Founder and CEO of Pacific Palisades-based nonprofit griefHaven Susan Whitmore spoke on grief and trauma following the fire.

“Sometimes people are told they are only ‘things,’” Whitmore said. “Yet many of those things come with deep and profound memories. The fires not only destroyed a home and its contents, but it also changed an entire world of safety, comfort, a community, lifestyle and much more. It’s grief and trauma, regardless of how it came about.”

GriefHaven is offering free grief and trauma support via Zoom twice per month for people who lost their homes in the Palisades fire.

Whitmore and Dr. Denise Mandel have been facilitating the groups for five months. Whitmore described the groups as a “loving, confidential and educational place to deal with the impact of the fire.”

“No one should walk through this kind of loss and trauma alone,” Whitmore said. “A griefHaven grief and trauma support group offers connection, tools and the reminder that healing is possible, even after the unimaginable.”

Whitmore said that in a “highly confidential” griefHaven group, a person “learns to better understand what is happening to them, specific techniques to deal with those experiences, be with others who ‘get it,’ and figure out how to rebuild life in a healthy and effective way.”

It is a drop-in group, so people can “come as needed” and “meetings vary in size.” The meetings include writing prompts, educational information about grief and trauma techniques, and time to share.

“This is not a place for people to exchange information about rebuilding,” she explained. “This is a therapeutic meeting for people to talk about their grief and trauma from the fire.”

Based in the Palisades, griefHaven lost its office space in the fire. It has been temporarily relocated to Water Garden in Santa Monica.

The next meetings will be Monday, December 15, and December 22, from 6 to 7:30 p.m. To get on the mailing list for the Zoom group, email hope@griefhaven.org or call 310-459-1789.

Los Angeles Fire Support Group

Friends of the Palisades Library is partnering with UCLA Psychology Clinic to offer Los Angeles Fire Support Group: Processing and Moving Forward with Loss.

“Join UCLA Psychology Clinic’s therapy group on processing and moving forward with loss among individuals who have lost their homes from the 2025 fires in the greater Los Angeles area,” read information. “This 10-week group will meet weekly and be facilitated by two doctoral students in clinical psychology.”

The group will cover topics in grief and loss, as well as “explore strategies for making room for difficult emotions, building a sense of empowerment after loss and moving forward in line with valued priorities.”

“You are not alone,” Friends of the Palisades Library wrote. “Come connect with others with shared traumatic experiences in a safe, nonjudgmental space.”

The group will meet once per week (either Wednesdays at 9 to 10:30 a.m. or Thursdays from 5:30 to 7 p.m.) virtually via Zoom. Those who would like more information can call 310-825-2305 and say they are interested in the Palisades fire support group or fill out a form at hushforms.com/referralform1.